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Can you get your ex-boyfriend back by being ‘close’ friends?
My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago because he wanted ‘space’ and felt suffocated as he felt our relationship went too ‘fast’ and too deep. Ever since we broke up, we patched up as ‘close’ friends. He contacts me on a daily basis – during the day, he would text and/or call me to see how I am doing and during the night, he would msn me. There were a few times we talked late at night about 3-4 hours.
I did fish whether he’s looking to get back together – he said no as he likes things as the way it is now and he feels more ‘relieved’. However, he still wants us to be in each others’ lives and he would like me to be some sort of supportive figure whom he could rely from time to time. At the same time, he said he would like ‘to watch me grow’.
I don’t mind being the ‘best friend’ and him being 3 steps behind at this moment BUT I probably would go crazy when one day, there’s another girl in his life and by then – I’m scared that he’ll no longer be around. I don’t know exactly what I want now either – I know I still have strong feelings for him but I know for the fact that I can’t be with a guy who wavers and who is not ready for commitment mainly due to a bad timing issue (i.e. I’m older than him by 4 years). Any suggestion?
…. you can try.
Does my ex boyfriend want it to be completely over or is there hope?
My ex dumped me back in January of this year. I read every site there was to help me get over him, blogged, got into therapy, started working out –dropped 4 dress sizes and none of that ever helped. I still love him…Over the course of the last 10 months I may have emailed him 6 times and when I did email him, he never responded to any of my emails. He shut down completely and I backed off. The break up was my fault…I lied about something really big and he left me…
So my birthday was Sunday and I find this on a site that we both frequent:
So, “I did what I was supposed to do”
does that mean that I am forgiven?
I WAS and AM who you think I was………..I just made some poor choices.
Are you happy now?
…Even though you were so cruel in the end, I STILL wish you the best and I STILL miss you everyday….I hope if we ever saw each other on the street, we could smile and wave…Be happy.
My response to that was
….I went back and forth before I decided to write back. There is much to say but I will save that for “later”. I will leave you with this…it is once said that where there are ashes there was a fire……I happened, you happened, and we happened. I love you today just like yesterday and I will love you tomorrow just like last year. We will see each other again….it’s just a matter of time and when we do it will be more than a smile or wave that will be shared. I told you that I love hard and I meant that. The candle inside of me flickers for you everyday. All you have to do is ignite it and I’m there. It just takes one word…HELLO! You are forgiven, am I?
I miss you every day too. I just have one question…how can I be happy without you? My “poor choices” left me sad and alone. I have learned from my mistakes and that cruel person, no longer lives in me. Please believe me.
Thanks for my cupcake…you’re the best!
Please remember….What God has put together no man can destroy…!
There was a response which was: HELLO and YES but just as fast as they were there they were gone.
Your thoughts….
You may well be giving yourself hope without good reason…it’s up to you to decide how long you want to pine for someone, when there are billions of other options out there…
It’s been nearly a year…time to move forward…if you and he happen to cross paths again then see what happens at that time…I see no reason to try to read into posts made on a website when you don’t even indicate the message was sent to you privately (such as email or private messaging through a site)…someone who was serious about something, would contact you directly and not leave messages in public venues open for interpretation by anyone…
How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.
But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.
He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.
My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.
But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.
Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I know exactly what you are feeling and it does suck! I’ve been there myself and I found out that surprisingly, it’s actually very easy to get your ex boyfriend to WANT YOU back after a breakup. You don’t have to beg, you don’t have to plead. The little-known “trick” all comes down to male psychology – the trick is to push his “emotional hot buttons”. Triggers that are specific to only men. He’ll literally come crawling back like a little puppy dog, begging for another chance with you if you know how to push his emotional hot buttons!
The entire reason you want your ex boyfriend back so badly is because he rejected you. It’s human nature to want what we cannot have. Especially if we had that something and it was suddenly taken away from us.
The solution is to completely reverse the rejection you’re feeling right now. There are specific things you could do and say to make him feel like he was the one being rejected.
All men all behave in a very similar and predictable manner. Trying to reason, use logic and argue with your ex boyfriend simply does not work. Even telling him how much you care about him will not work. It will only further push him away. It will only creep him out. He just doesn’t respond to that kind of reasoning on a deep emotional level. His DNA is hard coded to respond to something entirely different. That’s how men are!
This site helped me to get my ex boyfriend back. It’s full of articles and videos to help you. What I like best about it, it doesn’t cost any money like a bunch of scams out there. Check it out – http://www.gettingbackex.info.
I hope this helps you!!
How long (after break up) is normal to be over your ex? My boyfriend’s ex cannot move on. HELP?
I met my boyfriend last year when he was taking a break from his 3 year relationship. He was not happy but since they were dating for a long time and his then girlfriend was turning 30 ,they decided to take a break and see if they really want to be with each other. I met him during that break. We became fast friends and since I had the same kind of problem we bonded quickly and hung out a lot. We never thought something can happen between us since I currently live in Paris (for school) and we were both on a break from our previous relationships. But then before we knew it we realized we are very compatible, have so much in common and we fell in love! (we still thought it’ll be a “summer love” kind of thing and didn’t even exchange phone numbers but then I came back to Paris, he found me on the internet and we decided to give the long distance relationship a try.
Anyways… It was very difficult for his ex girlfriend to accept that their relationship is over after so many years. I understand how hard it must be for someone to move on after a long term relationship but at the same time, it’s been about a year and I still hear about how upset/down she is, how she’s told everyone “she will never move on”, how she tries to contact my boyfriend, offers to go on a work trip with him, etc.
On the other hand, I feel like my boyfriend feels guilty about this. I can’t help that much because whatever I say in this case will come off as what a “jealous new girlfriend” says but I honestly think if you are not happy in a relationship then it’s a huge mistake to get married just because you’ve been together for so long.
Anyways….I want him to be open about his feelings and I appreciate the fact that he shares a lot with me. But at the same time I am getting tired of the whole ex situation and I want this drama to be over. I feel there’s a shadow over my current relationship because of that and I just want it to go away.
Am I being reasonable?
Should I say anything?
What is the right thing to do?
Yes. you should say something! Its not fair for you to have to deal with this crap. If hes with you now, he should be with YOU now.. leave his ex in the past. They shouldnt be having any contact if its really over.
How can you get your ex back when they are in a rebound relationship?
Me and my ex broke up in March but didnt really stop talking/hooking up. I later found out he was trying to just be friends with benefits with me, but at other times he was going to ask me out. I told him i couldnt continue that so he asked to be friends and I said it would be too hard.
This was saturday. That saturday he met this other girl. She had a boyfriend and they broke up on tuesday so she could hang out with my ex. His friends claim that he “really likes her” but they say they are moving veryyy fast. ( He is already asking her when she will have sex with him)
So I don’t think these feelings he has for her are real. I think he is using her to replace me since im no longer there to fill his needs, he needs to find a girl that does.
She is going to a college 4 hours away at the start of August, so even if they do date it can’t last too long. Anyways, thats not my concern. My concern is how do i get him back? I deleted him off facebook, and his number even though i have it memorized. I know i should wait and let this phase pass, but i still want him back. i miss him.
—And for the record if they do date i wouldn’t try to break them up.
Any advice???
Oh, and let me add- they are not in a relationship yet. One of his friends tell me they would be surprised if they even do get together. But thats only one of them.
last thing sorry. I have a major past with him, he said I was his first real love, and we both lost our virginity to eachother.
He was my first love too. I was the first girl he has ever cried over/ infront of.
Firstly, thanks for answering mine, was very helpful
… now, you two sound like you had a real good thing going there and so i hope it all works out for you both in the end. I think what you should do is leave it for a short space of time, then call him and ask if he wants to hook up and do something, gradually start seeing him again, re-add him on facebook and stuff. Dont just rush in saying oh i still love you lets get back together cause that might shock him. Take it slow, then after youve been meeting him again for a while sit him down and talk about starting a proper relationship again. Good luck, you sound like a great pair and i really hope it works out. 